Editorial Review Product Description An unprecedented collaboration of 35 remarkable ministers, teachers, leaders and thinkers, blending their ideas on how you can connect FAMILY + CHURCH. This all-star team includes: Michael Chanley, Reggie Joiner, Jim Wideman, Brian Haynes, Fred Stoeker, Anna Light, Becky Arthur, Bradford S. Tate, Brian Vander Ark, Dick Gruber, Gina McClain, Jonathan Cliff, Justyn Smith, Kenny Conley, Matt McKee, Michelle Romain, Rob Bradbury, Roger Fields, Ryan Frank, Sam Luce, Steven Dilla, Yancy, Jim Kast-Keat, Patricia Verbal, Carey Nieuwhof, Jeremy Hall, Timothy Smith, Joyce Oglesby, Matt Markins, Rob Rienow, Heather Wimsett, Steve Young, Jason Houser, Nevan Hooker, and Team Kidmo. ... Read more Customer Reviews (18)
Full of ideas... worth the price of the book!
With 35 authors and a ton of ideas, you will find things that you like, things you dislike, and things you'll have to mull over for a while.Overall I found this to be like a magazine or catalog for Children's Ministry.I have several take aways from the book, and there were some throw aways as well.I cannot say much more that that.
Collaborate Review
I love this book because it gives you so much to pull from. It's people in different contexts speaking on different topics. If you want a cookie cutter family ministry model, then this book is completely wrong for you. However, if you want a book to create some inspiration and spark some creative thinking to do ministry in your specific context then you must pick this book up.
It's an awesome read and kudos for the work done by all the authors and the team to organize the thoughts and put it together for us to consume. Absolutely love it!!!
Great format, good ideas.
For those of you who pre-ordered your copy of the new Collaborate book, Michael Chanley's collection of 34 authors writing about family and church, you should have received it by now! Mine showed up in the mail on Monday and I dove right in, eating up 50 pages before it was time to head to bed (I was a little tempted to stay up late and finish it, but since the baby doesn't sleep in, I thought better of it!). I'm really liking the book so far, and I think it has some great ideas that I'd like to implement at our church over the next year (I'm trying not to do "too much too fast"). So far, I'm reached Chapter 12 and these are my favorite ideas (in order of appearance):
1. Parent Liason Team (or Parent Advisory Group) (Chapter Two)
2. Milestones (using them them to connect church and home) (Chapter Five)
3. Parent Fuel Packs - monthly kids that contain age-appropriate resources that parents can use to facilitate spiritual discussions at home (Chapter 7)
4. Child Dedication class (gets family thinking about the "finish line" in their child's life) (Chapter 12)
So far, a number of great sounding books have also been mentioned that I'll be checking out. I like the fact that each chapter is "bite-size" -- it's something I can completely see accomplishing in my ministry. So often, I read ministry books and am amazed at the great ideas, but feel overwhelmed about where to actually start. This book has a great format -- you could just take one chapter a month or one chapter a quarter (after you've gobbled up the whole thing first, of course) and begin to implement the idea found there. Well, I better get back to reading!
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Good, but not great
Collaborate:Family + Church is a 188-page collection of ideas on family ministry by 35 contributing authors.Each chapter is about 6 pages long and highlights either the author's particular passion for family ministry, their personal experience with family ministry, or the conference that they are trying to sell.Few of the chapters are "deep," but there are smatterings of ideas, websites, and other resources that can be used for pastors trying to integrate family life with spiritual formation.As such, it lives up to its descriptions of providing "ideas on how you can connect family + church," but the content depth falls short of the depth one might expect from names like Chanley, Joiner, and Wideman.
In fairness, the purpose of this book is quite different than something like Think Orange.It is not building a philosophy of ministry; it assumes that in the reader.Rather, it is an attempt to generate ideas by gathering Christian leaders who share similar (but not the same) passions.Some of the chapters are not valuable at all; I wonder how some authors made the cut.(Just as the best scholars aren't always the best teachers, the most effective ministry leaders may not always be the best writers!)Others, like Rienow's Biblical theology of God's purpose for the family, are worth the price of the book.(Although you can get much of the same information from [...].)But this illustrates the value of this book.It exposes the reader to new websites, new authors, new ministries, and helps generates connections.To that extent, it does help the reader "collaborate" with others.
To summarize each of the author's contribution, I will reduce each author's content to one sentence or phrase.Consider this a Tweet for each chapter.Keep in mind, some chapters have very little "how to" due to space limitations.This just gets the ball rolling.My top 3 are indicated by an asterisk (*).
1. A Rising Tide - by Michael Chanley - "Developing small groups that help parents be parents."(9)
2. Parent Liasons - by Anna Light - Have parent liaisons to interact with the parents of your youth ministry.
3. Family Connect - by Becky Arthur - How to partner with parents
4. Big Idea - by Brad Tate - Coordinate "one unifying `Big Idea' each week" for all of your church's ministries so everyone (kids/teens/adults) is learning the same content at the same time. (20)
5. Make a Shift - Brian Haynes - Designate and celebrate spiritual milestones.
6. Putting the Pieces Together - by Brian Vander Ark - Be strategic and plan your goals for content, curriculum, parent resources by age group.
7. *Change You Need to Embrace - by Carey Nieuwhof - Senior pastors need to get on board with family ministry.Here's why.
8. Families Serving Together - by Dick Gruber - Children and teens should volunteer with their parents.
9. Doing Book - by Fred Stoeker - Creating a space to talk with your kids at home
10. I Hate Homework - Gina McClain - Parenting is important.
11. Proverbs 16 - Heather Wimsett - Shema is important.
12. *Our Journey - Jason Houser - How to do family worship at church and home
13. Connecting Youth Ministry with Families - Jeremy Hall - Setting and articulating the goals for breakthroughs we want teens to experience
14. First Voice, Second Voice - Jim Kast-Keat - Partner with the parents of your preteens.
15. The Missing Piece - Developing a Biblical Worldview in Your Children - by Jim Wideman - How to live out a Biblical worldview so your kids "catch" it
16. How to Offer a Truly Family-Friendly Event - Jeremy Cliff - Offer affordable, fun experiences for families to enjoy together.
17. Family Nourishment - Joyce Oglesby - Host people over for dinner in your home.
18. PJ's All Starts Leadership Program - Justyn Smith - Offer a ranking system to promote children's leadership designed around your goals and values.
19. Reinventing Baptism - Kenny Conley - Use baptism as an opportunity to involve parents in children's spiritual development - through the education process, the act of baptism, and follow-up conversations.
20. Church DNA - Team Kidmo - Find a part of the church vision/goal that you can support through family ministry.
21. Paramount Parenting - Matt Markins - Shema is important.
22. Environment Changes that Need Changing - Matt McKee - Pay a lot of money to change the visual environment of your ministry.
23. Family Fitness - Michelle Romain - Live out healthy lifestyles as a spiritual value for your family.
24. Double It - Nevan Hooker - Set a Big, Hairy, Audacious, Goal and start going for it!
25. God's Heart for Families Affected by Special Needs - Pat Verbal - Reach out to families with children with special needs.
26. *Where Do You Start? - Reggie Joiner - "Churches that build effective family ministries will strive to integrate their strategy, refine their message, reactivate the family, elevate community, and leverage their influence."(138)
27. Selling Out - Sold Out - Rob Bradbury - How his church became discontent with where they were and launched a Friday night family event.
28. *Building a Theology of Family Ministry - Dr. Rob Rienow - A Biblical basis for family ministry based on God's purposes for the family in redemptive history.
29. Engaging Families Through Involvement - Roger Fields - How Kidz Blitz curriculum works
30. Fighting Staff Infections - Ryan Frank - Improve your relationship with your senior pastor.
31. Building Ministry - Sam Luce - Create a generational pipeline to ensure that age-segregated ministries are connected to each other.
32. The Small Conquering the Big - Steven Dilla - "The small things done consistently over long periods of time make big differences."(176)
33. Young at Heart - Steve Young - Shema is important.
34. Living the Shema as a Dad - Timothy Smith - Shema is important for dads.
35. Music:The Language Everyone Speaks - Yancy - Model and teach worship to your kids.
-Jonathan Foster
COLLABORATE!!!
This book truly speaks to the benefit of great thinkers working together.Experts from all over the spectrum of ministry address - from their personal perspective - their tested theories on best practices for discipling the next generation.From parental involvement in student ministries or church-wide celebrations, to programs that seek to bring generations together thru meals or social activities, this book has gems of advice for anyone who works with youth and their families.
For me, the significant take-aways were:
VISION:What our desired end-result?Who do we want children to grow up to be?
MISSION:The Shema!Love the Lord your God with all your heart with all your soul and with all your strength.Impress them upon your children.(Somehow I had never realized that Deut. 6 follows directly after, and is therefore truly a part of the Shema - Hear O Israel: The Lord your God is one.)Can't have one without the other.This is the mission of the people of God (whether it be Israel of the Old Testament, to the modern day church family) - to pass along the faith of their fathers to the next generation.
PATHWAYS:Collaborate:with Pastors and Church Leadership, with Student Ministry leaders, with parents, with the entire church family.
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